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In 2019, my dear brother Wim, who lives in Canada, was diagnosed with PSP, a progressive disease that affects the nerves in the brain.
In 2021 he had to stop working and sell his beautiful truck.
He can now hardly talk, can no longer walk and other motor functions are also increasingly failing. That means he needs a lot of help.
Help he needs to get, because Wim never asks for anything for himself!
He still tries to make it as easy as possible for others.
In March 2024 he fell at home and broke his upper arm. He was not allowed to use his arm for six weeks, which further limited him as he could no longer walk with his walker. Unfortunately, after those six weeks it turned out that the fracture had ruptured further and Wim is not eligible for surgery in Canada due to his illness.
He could not return home because he could not use a wheelchair there. And he needs care 24 hours a day. Wim had to stay in the hospital until a place is available elsewhere.
Wim fell into depression. I almost lost all contact with him because he barely used his phone anymore.
In mid-July 2024, I received an emergency call from his friend who visits and cares for him daily.
My dear brother Wim would receive euthanasia on the thirteenth of August. But his friend said he wasn't ready for that yet. And while family and friends prepared to say goodbye, I booked a flight from Tanzania to Canada to take stock.
I had to see with my own eyes what the situation was like for Wim and how he was doing!
Well, it's a pretty hopeless situation. Because of the PSP he can hardly speak, can no longer walk, can no longer use a smartphone. Hospital care is not really focused on nursing a person with such a condition. And the food is terribly bad.
When I was there Wim and I talked a lot, including about his reasons for euthanasia and he decided against it. Also he did not want to sign for the next period of three months or six months. He is not in pain, his only reason for wanting to die is the hopelessness of his situation.
Now Wim would really like to see his dream come true and go back to Tanzania with me.
And that's the only thing I can offer him. A temporary place in my life in that beautiful country among beautiful people! For that I ask your help.
Money is needed for the trip and for some adjustments at home such as a hospital bed, grab rails in the bathroom and 24-hour care for the time that Wim is with me.
The doctor has given the green light, Wim can handle this journey.
Would you please help me make Wim's dream come true? Every contribution is very welcome!
Kind regards and thank you very much in advance!
Els